“Based on when you purchased your Wrangler, the dealership wasn’t lying to you. Up until very recently, the Department of Defense had rules and regulations regarding military members and credit services.
The Military Lending Act limited what types of services were available to military members to protect against predatory lending practices. Gap insurance
was included in this regulation. However, the Department of Defense has recently amended the laws to allow easier access to these services. Since your friend just purchased their vehicle, this would be why they were able to add gap insurance.
If you’d still like gap insurance, it is possible to obtain it. Reach out to your current carrier to find out if they offer it.
If they don’t, you can shop around. Most major carriers offer some form of gap insurance. They also usually offer a military discount.
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