We’re sorry you’re having some transmission troubles. And your friend is right: resetting the transmission control module, or TCM, is usually a great place to start when diagnosing transmission trouble.
Before we begin, here’s a little disclaimer: if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. Meaning, if your transmission is fine, don’t mess with your TCM. But in this case—rough shifts, or early or late shifting—it’s worth a try. And unlike replacing a transmission, it’s free, so why not?
If you’re still having trouble, you’ll want to take your car to a mechanic and have them diagnose it further. Otherwise, enjoy your driving!